A year..

About a year ago… I started conversing with someone. Someone that initially I had (I thought)reason to either dislike or at least distrust. Naturally.. as with almost anything, I was wrong.

During the ensuing year, my new chum told me stuff like: “you are very judgemental”… “you are wrong”..” we can’t all be geniuses”. It’s stuff that most people wouldn’t say to me.

It’s not that I am fearsome or hard to talk to (I hope), It’s mostly  that not everyone can say that stuff without fear of offending.. I don’t mean just me but anyone. It’s the hardest thing to be honest enough to have an effect but not to worry that the effect you have will be a shut out.

Anyway , to conclude.. this chum has made me self edit..and I think that I am somewhat the better person for doing that..

er yeah.. thanks nameless internet chum.